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To attract a high-quality woman, a man needs to build a high-quality life for himself.
Sometimes this is hard for a lonely guy to understand. As a man, it’s almost natural to feel as though a great woman will be the answer to all of your problems.
But here’s the ironic part… Although this might seem true, the fact is that the feeling of needing a woman to solve all of your problems creates problems with every woman you meet.
What sort of problems does this create and how important is a good attitude when approaching women?
It’s called neediness, which — you guessed it — also translates into wussiness.
And there is only one cure…
You need to build a life for yourself that gives you internal satisfaction, and you don’t need a woman to do it!
But like they say in the movies… “If you build it… she will come.”
So how do you do this?
Well, first of all, you need to start doing things for yourself.
Develop a social circle that gives you a ton of activities to participate in that you enjoy. Polish relations with your family — do whatever it takes. You’ll feel much better, and more content.
If there are some hobbies that you’ve wanted to take up, go for it. Develop interests outside of picking up women that are exciting for you.
Do some of the things that you’ve been putting off for a long time. If you’ve always wanted to skydive or climb a mountain, make it happen, so you can look back at yourself a year from now and be proud and excited about what you’ve accomplished.
Don’t get too obsessed with learning how to meet women. But do get obsessed with having a great life. That is the key.
How important is a “good attitude” in approaching women?
If you spend a lot time with guys who are “naturally” successful with women, you’ll notice that their attitudes are very different from most “regular” guys’.
One of the biggest lessons you can learn here is that “naturals” always assume a woman wants them, no matter what.
A great way to incorporate this into your behavior is to take every sign a woman gives you as a positive thing. If she looks away while you are talking, it’s a positive thing. She’s probably just trying to look distant because she’s playing hard to get.
If she doesn’t agree with something you say, that’s another good sign.
If she mentions another man while you are talking, even better.
When you truly believe that everything a woman says or does is a positive thing, she has no choice but to pick up on the powerful vibe of confidence you are sending and become very turned on, even if she had negative thoughts about you in the first place.
above is according to david deangelo:
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